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You might already know from Twitter that about 35 years ago, my dad's dad took his own life. I don't know if dad is thinking about this more than usual, but we've talked about it twice in the past two days. 35 years ago, men were mostly not meant to be depressed. I mean, men are still mostly "not meant" to be depressed. That's a big part of the reason men die by suicide at a rate of more than three times that of women. The stigma surrounding men's mental health is massive, ill-informed and also deadly. Anecdotally, it seems to be improving, at least in people I know. I talk to the men I know about how they're feeling. I'm not sure if this is because I talk so much about how I am feeling, but they sometimes come to me and ask for my support and even advice.

This bright spark has decided he's not going to call his child "gifted". The fact that his child is apparently not gifted doesn't seem to have factored into this decision, but you know, just in case anyone was wondering, in the event that his child had a brain transplant down the track and became a different child. I have a gifted child. I also have a not-gifted child. So here's your first lesson, Christopher: they are both really smart. Off the charts smart. One is gifted. The other one is just regular smart. Gifted is not "smartest". It's a way to label behavioural traits, to assist with learning development and needs analysis.